Anxiety Counseling for Kids, Teens & College Students
In Person Therapy in St. Louis, Missouri
Even if you or your child look angry on the outside, you know something bigger is happening underneath the surface.
Our therapists care about good outcomes, and get them consistently!
91% of our clients see improvements, with 82% achieving their goals within 12 sessions!

We specialize in
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Anxiety in College Students
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Therapy for Stressed Out Teens
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Anger Management for Kids
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Counseling for Pre-Schoolers
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Collaborative Parent Coaching

You don’t know what to do to help your kid.
You’re dealing with a child who won’t, or even can’t, tell you what's really going on inside; a child who obsesses over every little "what if;" who gets overwhelmed in an instant, from 0 to 60. You feel stuck and powerless. You just want them to feel better.
Meeting our specialists:
Anxiety can look like anger, like stress, like perfectionism… and regardless of how it looks, it's getting in the way of everything else. You need a plan - and you need highly trained therapists who can really figure out what’s going on underneath the surface. We have individual therapy services available for you, your child, or your teen - along with therapeutic parent coaching tailored to you and your needs.
Outcomes-focused, evidence-based therapy
Through building anxiety management skills, we can turn this around. We track your outcomes scores each and every week, for you and your child, to make sure things are actually getting better - meaning our therapists can proactively address problems, and get you through therapy faster.
Take charge of your life
Our collaborative approach is tailored to you. We work with you to figure out how best to deal with what's going on whether that’s individual work and parent coaching. Our outcomes-focused approach, high specialization, and weekly parent check-ins set us apart.

The Compassionate Counseling St. Louis Team
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Kelsey Torgerson Dunn
MSW, LCSW
Owner & Founder -
Molly Shaffer
M.Ed, LPC
Senior Therapist & Parent Coach -
Samantha Ferrara
MSW, LCSW
Anxiety Therapist & Parent Coach -
Rachel Simons
MSW, LMSW
Play Therapist In Training

Choosing the right therapist for your child can be overwhelming. Our proven track record speaks volumes.
At Compassionate Counseling St. Louis, we understand that each child's therapy journey is unique.
That's why we integrate Feedback Informed Treatment, using the Outcomes Rating Scale (ORS) and Session Rating Scale (SRS) to track our outcomes each and every week.
We're committed to real-time adjustments, and we tailor each and every session to you - so that you can experience real, tangible progress.
We’ve been tracking our outcomes for years, and our results speak volumes:
Over 91% of our clients see improvements, with 82% achieving their goals within 12 sessions.
We're proud of the positive impact we have on families, and we’re ready to help you navigate these next steps together.
When Anxiety Makes You Angry is a CBT self-help book for teenagers.
It’s filled with actual, concrete therapist-approved strategies to help your teen learn about what’s really underneath their anger, and what they can do about it.
Frequently Asked Questions for Counseling St. Louis
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The terms counselor and therapist are often used interchangeably, and both professionals provide mental health support. What really matters is their training, experience, and approach. A licensed professional counselor (LPC) or a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) can both offer therapy for anxiety, stress, anger, and trauma. The key is finding someone who specializes in your concerns and makes you feel supported and understood.
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The best therapist is one who makes you feel comfortable, heard, and respected. Here are a few tips:
Look for a therapist who specializes in what you’re struggling with—whether it’s anxiety, trauma, parenting challenges, or perfectionism.
Read their website, bio, and reviews to get a sense of their approach.
Schedule a consultation to see if their style is a good fit. Therapy is a collaborative process, and it’s okay to switch therapists if you don’t feel a connection.
At Compassionate Counseling St. Louis, we work with anxious, overwhelmed kids, teens, and young adults. If you’re not sure if we might be the best fit, we’re happy to help you figure it out.
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Many insurance plans do cover costs of therapy, but there are limits to what they will cover. They may restrict you to only getting treatment for certain diagnoses, limit how much counseling you can receive, or require sessions to occur on a schedule they decide - not the clinician. At Compassionate Counseling St. Louis, we don’t take insurance, but we do provide you with a superbill that you can submit for partial out of network reimbursement - if your plan allows it.
Insurance is tricky - which is why we’ve created a free guide on how to find out if your insurance will cover a portion of our fee for you. You can find that over on our Fees and Insurance page.
While we don’t take insurance, we know some families can only make therapy work if it;’s in-network. If we have a good referral for your plan, we are happy to share their contact info with you.
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There are a lot of different counseling modalities out there, and it can be hard to figure out which one is best for you.
There’s no one-size-fits-all approach, but some of the most effective and widely used therapy types include:
CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy)
At Compassionate Counseling St. Louis, we tailor therapy to the client—whether that means helping a perfectionist teen manage stress, teaching a young child self-regulation skills, or guiding a college student through anxiety-driven burnout.
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Absolutely. Counseling is a judgement free space, and our practice is rooted in what Carl Rogers termed “Unconditional Positive Regard” - no matter what you say, think, or do, we approach you with compassion, empathy, and understanding. Outside of safety issues, like being a danger to yourself or others, child abuse, or elder abuse, what you say in session stays in session. We’re ready to listen to whatever it is you need to get off your chest - and we’re ready to collaboratively work together towards a solution.
Looking for St. Louis counseling, child therapists, teenager therapy, or a great therapist for college students?
Our highly trained child and teenager therapists are here to help!
We tailor our approach to you:
Whether your child needs stress management skills or your teen just needs to talk, we want to be your go-to resource. As child and adolescent anxiety specialists, we are happy to provide a free 15 minute phone screening to help you navigate this process. We can determine if therapy would be the best next step.
We work closely with parents:
Each and every session, we set aside time for a weekly check in with you, as part of your therapy minutes. Need more intensive support? Learn more about our therapeutic parent coaching.
Wondering if we’re the best fit?
After we talk, we can help connect you with other great therapists, psychologists, counselors, or psychiatrists in St. Louis if we don't have the specialized training that would be the best fit for you or your child.
Get started with a free consultation
We are happy to provide a free 15 minute phone screening to help you navigate this process. We can determine if therapy would be the best next step.

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